Whats happening...

Ok, well, this is the post that I have been putting of for a few weeks now. *sigh* Dave and I are now seperated. I have been living with my parents and he has moved out of our old apartment into a place with his sister. We are trying to work things out, and I am hoping for the best ( whatever that is...) and just taking it day by day. So, there it is. Out in the open. I appreciate everyone's concern but please understand that this is very hard for me, and answering a million questions only makes it harder. I will post more once everything settles down. On the plus side, I have lost 13 pds ( through busting my hiney at the gym swimming everyday. It is the ONLY thing that de-stresses me. ) Wahoo...